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How to Get Girls With Bad Boy Attitude, and Nice Guy Style

It's a classic topic of conversation for guys: What kind of men do women want, nice guys or bad boys? An interesting statistic tells us just what kind of personality women want in men.
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It's a classic topic of conversation for guys: What kind of men do women want, nice guys or bad boys? An interesting statistic tells us just what kind of personality women want in men. A survey by TopDatingTips.com found that 38 of women prefer nice guys, 15 prefer bad guys, and 34 prefer a blend of both.

Did you hear that last number? A good 1/3 of women don't want guys who are 100 good or 100 bad. 34 want a guy who's got a little good, and a little bad, in him. The good part in him makes him treat her well and shower her with affection; the bad part in him makes him exciting, dangerous, and powerful. Fortunately, mixing some bad parts with your good side isn't that difficult. It requires positive changes that will change the way you look, feel, and talk to women.

You don't have to be a bad boy to get girls. You just have to bring bad boy attitude. The five ways to do this are:
  • Get physical
  • Make her feel safe
  • Play on her wild side
  • Don't let anyone walk over you
  • Develop ATTITUDE

Nice guys can learn a few things from bastards. The reason many women shy away from guys who seem too nice is that they don't want a guy who'll be submissive, clingy, and dependent. They don't want a guy they can walk all over. Nice guys often treat a woman with such politeness that she can't imagine him ravaging her on her office desk. Nodding patiently, going out of your way to impress them, backing off when someone treats you inappropriately: these are the things most girls just can't stand. You're acting like you're less than them, and there's just no challenge there.

Remember, you NEVER want to give women higher status than you. The reason women always go for "bad guys" is because they project superior qualities women yearn for: confidence, adventure, popularity. Unfortunately, nice guys just don't convey those things that girls fantasize about.

But nice guys CAN be similar enough to bad boys to get the women they want. Let's look at each method of bringing in "bad boy attitude"...

1. Get physical.

If you tell a woman that you do Tae Kwon Do, have a black belt in karate, or have reformed from your previous life as an amateur rugby player, she's going to immediately assume that you're the kind of guy who could protect her in an emergency. Now, if you're a 135-lb geek with spaghetti arms, she may not believe you, so I recommend that you actually get some martial arts or self defense training. Kick some ass on the football field. Join a gym and get pumped up. Show the woman that you're a warrior, and she'd better believe it, or you'll just move on to the next girl.

2. Make her feel safe.

By doing the little things for her, like walking on the part of the sidewalk between her and the street, or keeping an eye open for anything potentially dangerous, or standing up for her immediately when anyone attacks her verbally or physically, she'll learn to TRUST that you, indeed, have a bad guy within you ready to stand up for her and defend her if necessary. Be the guy who straps her in her seatbelt on the roller coaster, or who offers a hand so that she doesn't trip. Trust is built upon these actions.

3. Play on her wild side.

As I said before, being successful with babes takes the kind of attitude that isn't afraid of risks. If you're always concerned about being politically correct, perfectly polite, and the kind of gentleman she'd introduce to her folks, you'll see girls slip through your fingers time and time again. Be a little outrageous. Flirt with her shamelessly. Let her know that you find her sexually attractive. Drop hints that will intrigue her. Say something risqu , and grin when her mouth drops. They may act shocked, even offended, but believe me: they LOVE it when you tease.

4. Don't let anyone walk over you.

You're going to find yourself in confrontational situations from time to time, with everyone watching. Stand up for yourself. Make it clear that you won't put up with that kind of treatment-even from a woman. No one has the right to talk to you in an aggressively confrontational way, lay hands on you, or threaten you. Even though your immediate instinct may be to back down to avoid a scene, quash it. Scenes draw attention, and there are always going to be women in the crowd watching whom you can impress by the way you handle the situation.

5. Develop attitude.

I just can't emphasize enough how crucial having a winning, confident attitude is. You don't care what others say. You don't care what others think. No matter how a woman reacts, it just blows right over you. That's because you're always in control. No woman-whether beautiful, popular, or rich-has power over you. You don't need anyone, you're not dependent on anyone, and you don't have to cling to anyone. Got it? Good.

So give these methods a try. Work out. Act like her protector. Stand up for yourself. And develop that attitude that says you've got the power to do whatever you want. You'll be irresistible in no time!

Short note about the author

James Brito, bestselling author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women" and "The Art of Impressing Women," regularly explores topics of female attraction. Since 2000, he has helped thousands of men around the world build confidence and get the women they deserve. To get his free six-part audio mini-course, visit: http://www.000relationships.com

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