As males we act macho; we put on a persona of strength; we do not allow ourself to shed tears in public; we do our best not to scream out in pain. Rough, tough, macho--that is who we are! We often carry this persona into the bedroom where tenderness is forgone for a continuance of our rugged masculinity. We spend as much time at foreplay as we do unzipping our pants. We are here to get the job done and when it comes to sex we thrust away as if ripping out concrete with a jackhammer.
Well, ladies, let me tell you that based on the email we receive at AskUncleTerry.com, even the most macho of men have areas on their bodies that will make them squirm and squeal with delight. Unfortunately, most men have not found these areas for, when left to their own devices, the only sensual place the man ever knows about is his own penis. That's right ladies, his own penis--a sensual area that he discovered as a little boy. During his adolescent years he probably spent more time massaging it than he did doing his homework!
Even most of us macho men would like to ride the roller coaster at Coney Island, or at our favorite amusement park. Much like these roller coasters give us a thrill; human touch will also arouse us simply by finding the right spot. Everybody has a button to push, and the male's erogenous zones are certainly numerous. By caressing these areas, your mate will instantly become stimulated and ready for action.
The most effective "button" on a male is his genital area. The penis shaft is a very obvious route to stimulate your man, but not the only route. A male's testicles are also very sensitive to touch. Be careful when you play with them for you wouldn't want to bring "Mr. Macho" to his knees. Gentle stroking and the feel and sight of your tongue on his testicles alone will make him moan. Another close neighbor is the man's anus. This can be a touchy subject for some men, but there are those who love to have their prostate massaged. Be sure to ask first, though!
A man's genitals are a good place to start, but try not to forget that this area represents only a small percentage of his body. The nipples are very sensitive to touch and can arouse a man quite easily. The careful caressing of his nipples with your fingers, lips, or tongue will provide the male with a state of temporary ecstasy. If you combine a gentle rubbing motion of his testicles while licking his nipples, he is sure to make you breakfast in the morning.
A few slightly less obvious erogenous zones on a male are his neck, face and earlobes. A man's ear is often overlooked. When a female slightly sucks on an earlobe, one can quickly envision her placing those lips somewhere else. This tickling sensation will leave a man craving more. The neck is a great place to kiss, and gently rub with your tongue. Hold him close while kissing his neck and rubbing yourself against his package; he will be on cloud nine.
The male body is a plethora of erogenous zones. If you massage his back, shoulders, hands, and buttocks, this is great way to get him aroused. The thought of having your hands covering his body can place him in a state of readiness. Once you have prepared him, make him wait by rubbing his palms and his feet. The anticipation of receiving you is bound to be killing him at this point.
Make sure to attack these erogenous zones. If you address these spots on your mate, it is guaranteed to enhance your sexual experience. Remember, you need to work together as a team. Good communication between you and your mate will tell you what works, and what doesn't. Now go get him, and make sure you push the right buttons! If you need a little more direction AskUncleTerry.com is there to guide you.
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