After the breakup of a close relationship, a woman may be left feeling as if her world has come to an end. The loss of someone you love can be very hard to take and it won't be long before she starts wondering if it is possible to win him back. Whether or not this is possible depends on if he still loves her and how he really feels about her. Judging the distinction may not be as hard as you think.
There is a tool a woman can use to accurately gauge a man's feelings toward her. It is called the “emotional scale”. On the emotional scale, a person's feelings are rated based on the level of emotional response. A strong emotion, like love or hate, receives a high score while indifference rates low. It may seem strange but a high score implies that there is a chance for reconciliation even if the response is hate and not love. The reason for this is that love and hate are flip sides of the same coin and both are the result of strong feelings. Over time, the anger that caused the hatred may fade, leaving room for love to come back.
Indifference, on the other hand, means that there is no chance of reuniting with your ex. What this means is that he no longer feels anything toward you, not even anger. In this case, whatever feelings he may have had for you have completely disappeared. It is typically not possible to rebuild a relationship from this side of the scale.
So, in order to find out if there is a chance for the two of you… give him a call. If his response seems happy or a little angry, there is a good chance that, with a little work, you might be able to give the relationship another try. If he sounds bored with the conversation then it is likely that the two of you are over for good.
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