After asking many men, “Why did you leave her?” the result was an amazingly simple yet a distressing answer: “She wasn’t happy with me anymore. Everything I’ve tried -all the things that used to make her happy - she ignores and acts miserable.”
From the time man was considered a Neanderthal and lived in caves, a man’s role was to be a provider. While society may have been adjusted to when the Neanderthal chose a mate, the role a man has and the desire to feel needed, as the caretaker still exists. By being able to provide, a man fulfills his sense of being needed. One of the aspects a man brings in his role as provider is to make his companion happy.
When a man can no longer fulfill his role he will leave. If he can’t make his companion happy, he will go somewhere else or to someone that he can make happy.
What can you do?
It’s simple, really. Make him feel appreciated. Open a channel of communication that you may have closed. If he makes you happy, be sure he knows it. Simple ways of doing this are: to say, “Thank you” to smile and laugh at his jokes; to show your appreciations by doing something for him; to tell him in plain words, “You make me so happy, I don’t know what I’d do if I didn’t have you in my life.”
Almost all men are oblivious to hints so if you’re not letting him know point blank that you’re happy with him and what he does for you, you may be on the track to losing him.
If you don’t want that to happen to you, the above paragraph is a simple solution to how you can reel him back in before he cuts the line. Take the time to let him know. Show him you care. Play the role of needing him as much as he needs to be needed.
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When a man can no longer fulfill his role he will leave. If he can’t make his companion happy, he will go somewhere else or to someone that he can make happy. What can you do?