Breaking up with the one you love is like bereavement. You feel the same bafflement, anger and desolation as you do when you lose a loved one. How could this happen? You never wanted this to end and you don’t want the pain, which is all you see waiting in your future. Instead, you want to get him back, this special relationship that meant the world to you.
But he’s gone. So how in the world can you get him back? You’ve got no reason to think he even wants you. As far as he’s concerned it’s over.
Well, the first step is to find out whether that’s really true and to do that you’ve got to get into his mind. Here’s how:
Have you ever heard of the Emotional Scale? It’s a fascinating and a very popular technique for evaluating someone’s relationships with all those around them. Imagine a scale calibrated to show all levels of emotional attachment from intense hatred, through complete indifference, to profound love.
What you need to do is work out where you register and you can do this by analyzing how he’s been treating you in the crucial weeks since the breakup. A key indicator is the number of times he’s tried to contact you. And the manner of that contact is important too. Has he been open, warm and communicative? If so, then you’re still way up on his emotional scale and it may only be a matter of time before he realizes how much he misses you and wants you back.
So how do I get him back?
Read the signs and take your time and make your move once you’re sure he’s ready to be persuaded.
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