When you’ve been through a painful breakup, it’s like coping with bereavement. One of the most important things in your life has vanished and left you disoriented, confused and bruised. At some point you’ll have to decide if you’re going to accept what’s happened and move on or pick yourself up and go out to get him back.
What a shock it is then when you find out he’s already with another woman. Did your relationship mean so little to him? Is he over you already? Surely you’ve got no chance of putting it all back together now, have you?
Don’t rush to make assumptions because appearances can be deceptive. If he’s with someone else so soon then it could be a classic rebound. It’s a very common human response when someone loses a serious relationship to try to find a replacement or a substitute. That’s because the relationship is gone but the need for it persists. So although it’s very painful to see, just keep telling yourself that it could work in your favor.
How’s that, you ask? Well, the more time he spends with her, trying to create new memories, the more he’ll be reminded of the old ones. That means he won’t be able to avoid comparing his life now with all you shared together and all the things he found special in you. He’ll remember things he thought he’d forgotten or things he never even knew. The likelihood is that you’ll come off best in the comparison. He’ll realize how he took you for granted and he may finally recognize that his feelings for you are as strong as ever.
So if at first your prospects look bleak just bear in mind that this rebound might be doing you both no end of good and that in the long-term you may be back together as strong as ever.
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