Too many men find themselves in an unsatisfying relationship with their woman. Too many men WISH they had a woman that they could get along with. Too many men are trudging along in a sex-poor or even completely sexless marriage.
If you are such a man, let me tell you; you really can have a happy marriage and enjoy frequent sex.
It's true. I KNOW it's true because I've helped men from all over the world create exactly that kind of marriage. The strange thing is, when these men came to me, they THOUGHT there was no hope for them because they THOUGHT their wife was non-sexual. They THOUGHT that's how she was and that there was nothing that could be done about it.
They were wrong.
Now, after some "fixing", their biggest concern is whether or not they are going to be able to keep up with their woman sexually.
Ok, you might be wondering how that kind of transformation could come about, right?
You might be wondering, how did these men "fix" their wife?
Well, they did have to do some fixing...
They did have to change some things...
They did have to shift their focus...
...from "fixing" their wife to "fixing" themselves.
Their wife wasn't the non-sexual problem.
The MAN was the problem. The man was doing things in such a way that HE was burying his wife's sexuality deeper and deeper with each passing year that they were together.
This was EVIDENCED by the fact that the woman became less and less sexual the longer they were together.
And, the problem is, a woman is a VERY SEXUAL being...so much so that eventually, she's going to TURN AWAY from the man who DOESN'T know how to help her express her sexuality but is instead causing her to bury it deeper and deeper.
Now, I'm not saying that a woman won't bury her sexuality of her own accord because she may well do exactly that – that can definitely happen too. Both he AND she can be doing things that bury her sexuality deeper and deeper. And, that doesn't matter.
At a subconscious level, all a woman knows is that she wants and needs a man who knows how to help her express her sexuality at a satisfying and fulfilling level in spite of herself and if he cannot do that, she will become very disillusioned with him and will eventually begin to seek out another man – whether through divorce or extra-marital affairs.
So, what's the solution?
How did these men I referred to earlier turn their marriage around from non-sexual to highly sexual? Well, they educated and developed themselves in a specific order.
First, they learned exactly and precisely what the emotional needs of a woman are and they began to meet those needs on purpose.
Second, they learned to be the masculine kind of man that is attractive to a woman and began to operate in that mode.
Third, they learned how to invoke sexual thoughts in their woman's mind.
Fourth, they learned how to sex their woman in a way that satisfied her and inspired her to want more and more of that satisfaction.
And now, they are both amazed at just how sexual their woman really is...
And, they're asking me about dietary supplements that will give them the strength and energy to be able to keep up with their woman's sexual drive.
That would be kind of a nice problem to have, don't you think?
Beware: many a man has tried to skip past the first three items because he was only interested in the fourth item – sexing his woman so that she would want more. In fact, it's because of this "popular demand" that bookstore shelves are lined with books promising men some new technique that will give a woman such spectacular pleasure that it will "blow away" all her resistance and reservation.
But, what you must know is that it doesn't work that way. It never has and it never will. A woman is not interested in any kind of a sexual relationship with a man who does understand and operate by the first three items and she's certainly not interested in more sex with him. If the first item isn't firmly in place, the second item won't work. If the first and second items aren't firmly in place, the third item won't work, and so on.
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