Have you ever wished that you could be the kind of lover who really inspires and satisfies your woman?
Great news...husbands are able to become a better lover and when you become aware of how a woman naturally makes love then you too will become a better lover who inspires and satisfies your wife.
Let me help you increase your awareness...
A man's approach to making love is very linear. It's very sequential. It's very direct. It's a straight line from start to finish that looks something like this:
1. At the moment of opportunity...
2. Express interest in sex...
3. Engage in just enough foreplay for the woman to lubricate...
6. Clean up...
7. Go to sleep or head off to do some work.
Left to his own devices, this is pretty much how a man would do it starting with about his second or third sexual encounter and continuing until his last sexual encounter.
This is precisely why so many women are uninspired by their man and dissatisfied with his performance as a lover.
Now, let's look at a woman's approach to making love. A woman's approach is very NON-linear. It's NON-sequential. It's iterative. It's a blend of direct and indirect. It's a looping process that repeatedly brushes through many different components such as:
B) Loving connection
D) Shared activity
E) Physical touch
F) Emotional touch
And, somewhere in this looping process all of the same things happen that happens in a man's linear model.
The difference from a woman's point of view is that the contrasting stimulation spread out over time and the tease of moving away and then coming closer and the difference between the physical and the emotional and silence complimenting the conversation all merge together to create an inspiring, fulfilling, satisfying form of intimacy that REALLY WORKS for a woman.
And so, the man who wishes to be a better lover need only broaden his perspective of making love and embrace more of an iterative, looping approach that so inspires and satisfies a woman.
Ok, consider this...now that I've pointed this out to you, you recognize that this is true. You can look back at examples in your personal history with your woman and recognize the pattern I've described in your woman's behavior, can you not? And amazingly, it didn't ever "click" until you just now read this, right?
And I'm wondering just how many other "secrets" like this one that you haven't recognized or become aware of yet – and I'm sharing them with men from all over the world. I'm also wondering, do you recognize opportunities for getting more of what you want when they confront you...like right now?
Copyright 2009, Article by Calle Zorro. Permission is granted to reprint this article ONLY if authorship credit is given to Calle Zorro and a link to InitiateIntimacy.com is included with it:
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