The time after a breakup can be torturous and confusing making you hate life, the world and all the people in it. One moment to wishing you had your ex back and life was right again. Because of this influx of emotions you’re going to have a hard time finding the ground below you.
Following are some mistakes that could happen in your pursuit to get your ex back that are better left undone. They’re easy to make when you’re ignorant of their existence, but knowing is key to being able to avoid them.
Constantly focusing on your ex to “take care” of him is either going to make your ex take advantage of you or make him see you as desperate or annoying. By clinging to your ex after a breakup you’re showing him that you depend too much on your ex which will make him feel even more that you need time on your own.
Naturally you’re going to feel hurt and want to be a social recluse after a breakup because you cared about your ex to the point that they were a major part of your life. Losing them is like losing a part of who you are. However, depression just looks bad if you’re trying to get back with your ex (not that planning to not get back with your ex is an excuse to let depression rule your life either).
Your ex has some changing to do; however, you can’t be the one to force him to change. He has to do it on his own. You have to do your own changing. You’re going to be a mess as it is dealing with the rough emotions that a breakup cause; trying to fix your ex’s problems before your own can be seen as hypocritical and also is almost impossible to do anyway. You might even discover your ex doesn’t have much changing to do anyway. In order to get back with your ex, you have to prove your ex can trust that you’re not going to drag them along another rough ride which you can do by making a few changes yourself.
Finding the right way to get your ex back is difficult especially if you’ve already started doing it the wrong way. Remember, it’s possible… you just have to be willing to work hard and not let emotions overcome you. Here are some helpful resources you won't want to miss at http://www.breakupcures.com/GetExBack.php