Making the decision to get back with your ex after a breakup can be tough because you’re likely to wonder if he even wants you back or if he’s decided to move on. Your ex may no longer love you, so your chances of winning him back really don’t exist. If he still does have feelings for you, however, he’s going to be showing them—subtly—and you’re soon going to be able to recognize his signs that will show you where you still stand.
In the game of poker, you don’t always know what your opponents’ hands are. However, there are certain signs you can watch for to learn if your opponent has a bad hand and is bluffing or a good hand. Some people hold their breath, others tap their teeth and some might twist a ring around a finger. You’re going to have to watch carefully and associate who does what with whichever hand. The signs people give during poker are much like the signs your ex will give you to let you know if he still has feelings for you. Just watch how your ex treats you.
If he’s returning your phone calls and is generally still pleased to have you in his life, that’s a good sign that you’re going to have a chance to get back with your ex. However, if he’s not contacting you—even after you leave a voicemail or email—it’s likely he’s trying to just move forward with his life without you. Though this is discouraging, you still have a chance of getting back with him; it will just take longer and be a lot more work.
Luckily, though, many broken relationships can be mended, it just takes the right amount of time, effort, a plan and two willing parties to give it another shot. Visit http://www.squidoo.com/discover-magic-of-making-up, there is hope to get him back and recapture his heart, mind and soul.