Perhaps you have broken up with your boyfriend, yet you keep missing him. So you are wondering what you should do to overcome this problem. Breaking up is a painful experience, and it is even worse if you really loved, and still love, your ex. Unfortunately, this is something that is quite common nowadays.
You will need to change your view. Instead of whining about how much you miss your ex, you should decide whether and when you should embark on winning the ex back. This won't necessarily make things easier, as you will have to think of the important steps you should take in order to achieve your goal.
Do not worry, the important strategies are effective even when you do not really get your ex back. While you may not achieve this, you will still get lifted out of your gloom and overcome your feelings of missing your ex.
Face reality
You should understand and accept the fact that there is really no magic charm you can throw to win your ex back automatically. There is no single formula that will work for everybody. The experience would not have been as painful as it is had that been the case.
This means that as you embark on these strategies, you should not assume that there is absolutely no chance of failure. However, you will feel better by knowing that you did all in your power to rescue the relationship. Many people have overcome after facing such experiences, and there is no reason why you cannot.
Accept the outcome
You should not feel as if you are a failure in case all your efforts at winning back your ex do not succeed. All it means is that your ex does not think that the relationship can or should be repaired. Do not blame yourself.
Winning back your ex is not the end
Although it may be quite frustrating as you try to win back your ex, this is actually fairly easy. What is more challenging is maintaining your restored relationship.
As much as you may miss your ex, loneliness is not a good enough reason to try to get back together.