There is a pattern that men play out over and over and over...the one where they take their wife for granted...they give her little to no attention...they give her very little of their interest...they show very little care or concern for her...their only REAL interest in her is sexually...until she gets major upset at them...at which point they start paying attention to her and being "nice" to her...until she returns to "normal"...at which point they go back to taking her for granted again.
This cycle repeats itself in a series of "wife training lessons" over the course of several years until finally, the wife "learns" that her husband's "attention" and "niceness" is disingenuous, insincere, hypocritical, deceitful, and manipulative.
And of course, with each "lesson" the wife becomes less and less sexual. Until at the end, after the wife "learns" and "accepts" the "truth" of what her husband really is...once she gives up hope that her husband has the ability to be sincere, genuine, honest, caring, or loving...and she starts moving towards another man...or towards divorce, THAT is WHEN these men usually come to me and want to know why their wife isn't responding to their "niceness".
Usually, they say something like, "Calle, I don't know what happened...as far as I could tell, my wife and I were getting along more or less fine...nothing had really changed...and then all of a sudden she just blew up. And now, no matter how much I tell her I love her...no matter how much I do for her...no matter how much I bend over backwards for her...no matter how nice I try to be to her, she just tells me that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore...that she just doesn't love me anymore...that she needs to find someone else who can give her what she wants. Calle, I love my wife...I don't want to lose her...What can I do to salvage my marriage?"
So, if you're one of those guys who has been taking your wife through the "training process" I've just described, realize that with each iteration of the process, you're one step closer to hearing your wife tell you that she doesn't love you and that she has found...or is going to find...another man.
My hope is that you're getting this "message" from me...and that you take it to heart...and that you decide to do something about your situation...rather than continue on in status quo until your wife gives you the "message" that she no longer loves you or is attracted to you and is ready to split up.
Either way...whether you're getting the message from me...or your wife has already given you the message, there are things you can do to WIN your wife back to you...IF YOU HURRY!
Copyright 2009, Article by Calle Zorro of DoThisGetSex.com
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