Cheating is a very painful experience and no wife would really like to be in a position where she wonder if her 'husband is cheating'? However, the truth is that this is something that bothers many of them. You may go through periods of self doubt that will wear you out. You should therefore be able to determine the truth by knowing how to read some signs instead of just ruining your relationship by lots of unfounded suspicions.
If you are asking: "How do I know my husband is cheating on me?" you should understand that there are some signs that will help you to find out the truth. However, you should as well understand that there are no absolutes and no surefire method that will tell you the truth without any doubt - unless you get him red handed!
The following are some of the important things that will help you to determine whether your husband is really cheating on you.
Have you noticed that your husband seems to be fond of working overtime? That is what he will tell you anyway. He may either be working extra hours or getting involved in all types of volunteer work. In short, he will try to find any sort of excuse to be away from home. Interestingly, he may apparently work overtime while his income seems to get less and less. This is something that you should take note of without rushing to conclusions.
You may notice that he is nowadays apparently very conscious of his health in terms of cleanliness, as he may shower pretty frequently. You should note whether he likes taking a bath as soon as he comes home. Alternatively, you may notice that he comes when he has already showered. This is odd unless he usually takes physical exercises in a gym.
Developing secretive tendencies
One of the things that will warn you that something is going on behind your back is when your husband seems to be rather too secretive. Men do not usually hide things unless they are relatively major, hence you should be more attentive when your husband turns this way. However, do not rush to accuse him, for he may be planning a pleasant surprise for you.
Get him red handed
You should not jump to conclusions when you see one or two of the signs mentioned above. The only foolproof way of determining the truth is to catch your husband red handed. If you have strong suspicions about his behavior and where he goes, you can opt for this step to find out the truth once and for all. However, you should understand that this step can have serious consequences and you need to be well prepared for them.