Given the intense pain that cheating creates; many men are wondering whether it is possible to prevent the occurrence in the first place. Can you stop her cheating before she starts? If you focus on stopping her from cheating, then you are actually misdirecting your efforts. You should instead concentrate on making her happy in your relationship.
Some people are of the opinion that focusing on bad things tends to make them happen. It is better to commit yourself to making your wife as happy as you can in your relationship than carrying out plans to stop her from cheating.
Let us therefore look at how you can make her happy instead.
a) Let her know how much you adore her. Women love men who adore them, hence when you tell her that you really adore her; you will have no reason to fear that she will go astray. Think of the apparently little ways that you can show her your affection instead of finding costly undertakings. She will be confident and comfortable when she knows that you love her.
b) Let her know that you appreciate her. Thank her sincerely for the things she does. Of course, your actions should also demonstrate that you are truly thankful, and this combination will make her feel important. If you make your wife feel that you take her for granted, you will effectively be leaving the door wide open for another interested man. Develop a thankful attitude and teach the children to thank their mother too. When she feels valuable at home, she is not likely to look at another man.
c) Give her due compliments. This is not a matter of giving compliments just for the sake of pleasing her. She will notice when you are simply flattering her. You should pay close attention to her and notice the things you can compliment her for. Do you notice when she changes her hair style? When your wife knows that you appreciate the way she looks, she will be happier in your company and she will try even harder to please and look smashing just for you.
d) Spend some quality time together. While it is true that we lead busy lives with hectic schedules, you should make spending time together be part of your schedule. If you do not spend some quality time with your wife, you will be disconnected, which will make it more tempting for her to go astray. Do not let your wife feel that other things are more important to you than she is. She should be the best person in your life.
If things have already gone sour between you, you should not feel that you have already lost her to the other man. You can still take measures that will help you to get your wife back This FREE video: the magic of making up will help you go about getting her back.