It is a common belief that women are very slow when it comes to the decision of marriage. But research have shown that men are even slower in doing so compared to their female counterpart. If you are in a relationship with a man who is a commitment phobic, it can be a challenging situation. The situation may be much more complicated if you really expect a lot from him and sincerely want the relationship to bloom into marriage.
The task of changing the heart of such a man who is reluctant to make a commitment can be an arduous task. But handling such a situation can actually be easier than you expect. All you need to know is the perfect trick in the book. Now let us find out how we can go about it using these 2 secret tips.
1. Don't dictate him
Well, if you think that you can just talk some sense into the heads of these guys, then you are wrong. That will make matters worse and he will end up being more stubborn. You must learn to take things calmly rather than continously 'wise-talking' him into agreeing.
Your boyfriend will feel that you are pressing him to get married and he will react quite drastically. Guys want to live their lives on their own terms and if you try to dictate him, he may react in a way which you do not want him to.
You must show that you don't have much expectation about taking the relationship to the next level. You should avoid any discussion on the subject of marriage with him. By not being needy, you are sure to grab his attention.
2. Don't be too available!
Boyfriends tend to take their girlfriends for granted. They know that their girlfriends will always be there for them, so they tend to take it for granted. Hence it is advisable to be unavailable for them at times.
You should make him yearn for your company and crave for you. If he misses you, he will want you even more and will never let you go away from him. He will try harder to win your heart. He will successfully change from a commitment phobic man to a commitment crazy lover.
Leave him for a short duration from time to time by going on a short trip or vacation. Make him feel your absence and that he is missing something without you. However, do not let him know until you are about to depart soon as this is sure to make him chase you.
You must have confidence in yourself and believe that your man will turn commitment crazy. To make him commit; you need to stay on the right path which leads down to a happy life.