If you have recently been through a breakup that has left you heartbroken, it may help you to know that there are some things you can do to help you get over the pain just a bit faster. These tips will not erase your pain. Nothing but time will completely heal your broken heart; however, these tips will help you to deal with the pain in a more productive way and may help the time pass faster.
1 - Keep Yourself Busy
There is nothing to be gained by sitting around and thinking about the pain you are feeling. Pull out your to do list and get started. If your list is as long as most people's, by the time you are finished doing all of those projects you have been putting off, you may find that your broken heart doesn't hurt as much as it once did.
2 - Devote Yourself to Others
Very little makes a person feel better about themselves then being of help to someone else. Not only will this keep you busy but you can end each day feeling good about the things you have done.
3 - Focus on Yourself
Often while people are in a close relationship, they put some of the things they want on hold. Now is the time for you to focus on the things you want out of life. If you want to further your education, now is the time. Not quite that inspired? Then find a new hobby or join a new club. It doesn't really matter what your new activity is so long as it gets you out of the house and it is something that you enjoy doing.
4 - Treat Yourself
Do not be afraid to splurge a bit. Take a day off from work and go shopping, go for long hike along your favorite trail or some other activity that you truly enjoy.
5 - Be Open to A New Romance. This can be a bit tricky because you do not want to end up in a rebound relationship that is likely to cause you more pain in the long run. There is no need to actively go looking for a new love; just remain open to the possibility.
If you can even consider getting involved with someone new, then you may be ready to objectively look at the benefits of get back with your ex If, after you have taken the time to heal and feel better about yourself, you still think that your ex is worth another try then you may want to visit The Magic of Making Up