The whole body of a woman is sexually sensitive, but she also has some specific zones you can use to tease her up sexually with during foreplay, and also during intercourse. And the same zones can be used to make it good for her when she is relaxing after the main act. To some extent these zones are at the same place as corresponding zones in a man, so a man can partly use things he knows about sensual zones in his own body to guide himself.
It is often wise to play with the different spots in a specific sequence, but going back and repeat the handling of some of the zones several times.
You can begin by caressing her neck by stroking up and down with your hands and keep special attention to the furrow in the mid with your finger tips. This zone is very sensitive to broad light caresses and a little harder tickling up and down in that furrow. Playing with that zone typically create sensations that will spread down along her back.
The lips and tongue is an obvious erotic area in women as in men, and the kiss is the equally obvious way of handling this zone, but the kiss must be done in an artistic and skillful way to give a deeper pleasure. You can begin by gently touching her lips with your own, then tighten your own lips and press a little more and suck a little in while detaching your lips again, making the classic smacking sound. Then grip several times softly over one of her lips with you own.
When touching her lips the next time both of you open up your mouth a little, and let your tongue tips play against and around each other. Also stick your tongue out and play with your tongue tip around her lips, while stopping a while to let her do the same. All these movements and many more can be combined and varied in many ways, but real success depends on an understandig of the play from both parts and cooperation.
The line along the spine all the way from the neck down to the buttocks is also very sensual. Many women will have a furrow in the mid of her back in which you can caress with your fingers down and up, but you should also caress along the spine in a broader fashion with your flat hand.
The breast nipples and surrounding are somewhat more intimate erotic zones that is fine to play with next. Many women have extremely sensitive nipples, and they easily get over-tickled, so one must try out very cautiously how strongly you should handle them. Stroke and squeeze gently the whole breast in your hands. Tickle the nipples with your finger tips and with a finger tip rotate gently around each nipple.
The belly can then be caressed in a broad way by stroking up and down. Take especially care to pull upwards a little just over her bladder region so that her genital labia get stretched a little upwards. Then find the navel with your finger tips. The navel is a very erotic point and by tickling with some pressure in the deep of her navel, you can create great sensations that are felt downwards to her clitoris, and give surprizing reactions in her genital region. Also rotate your finger against the inner walls of her navel, stretching it in all directions.
The clitoris is perhaps the crown of the sensual spots. The visual part of the clitoris is a knob situated between the upper parts of a woman's labia. It has much of the same sensual functions as a man's penis head. It has a foreskin resembling a hood. One can play with a woman's clitoris in much the same way as with a man's penis, stroking and tickling with one or two fingers, very gently at first, but more vivid at later stages. Because of the sensuality of this spot, massaging the hood of the clitoris up and down is often a better way of handling than directly at the clitoral head.
An even more intimate point is her g-spot. In order to get to it, your woman must lay comfortably with somewhat spread legs. It is found inside her between her vagina and urethra, and it can be reached by a finger or a dildo by pushing upwards some way inside her vagina. To hit the right spot requires some seeking with your finger or the dildo and trying different degree of pressure. You sense from her reactions when you have found the right spot. When found you partly massage and partly poke with your finger against the point.
Her buttocks and rectal zone is perhaps as sensual as her genitals. You begin by caressing and gently squeezing her buttocks broadly with a whole hand. Then pull her buttocks to the side so her rectal zone get stretched. There is an extremely sensual point just under the base of her spine, giving great responses if you tickle her deeply here with your finger tip. Then you can get more intimate by caressing the inside of her buttocks, and by stretching at both sides very near to her anus. A very gentle massage with your finger tips at her anal rims can make very profound sensations.
If both you and your women is comfortable with it and she gives signals that she likes it, you can very gently enter her anus with a lubricated finger or a dildo. Take time to poke in and out a little in her opening, navigate gradually deeper inside. Point and stroke at the walls inside her rear cavity. At several points inside her rectum you can find extremely sensual points that give reactions in her whole pelvic region. Also when you go out again you do it extremely gently. A characteristic of this area is that very soft caresses often give the strongest feelings and responses.
It is not recommended, due to danger of bacterial contamination, to do anything deep in a woman's genital parts with a finger or toy that has been in her rectal area. If you want to explore the deeper parts of her body, you must first do it at the front and then take her behind, or choose which part you want to play with in the most intimate way.
It is important that the play with the erotic zones not only becomes a favor the man does for the woman. She must also give the man the favor of doing good to his erotic zones, so the play gets equally rewarding for each, and both must be sensitive to what feels good for the other.
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