Erin Adams

" Where you are at has nothing to do with how far you've come "

Tyring to rebuild a previously broken life. Major positive outlook on future. (wish I could get paid for that...LOL:) " Just keep swimming "

Earlier comments

Erin Adams: "Informative...except one illusion, which was this: 'Feminine individuals (including feminine men) do picky complaining. Masculine individuals (including masculine women) look for something positive to say about suboptimal situations.' THAT is the most messed up theory I've ever heard. The thing that bothers me more than it being a labelized assumption is that it was even most ignorantly stated like a fact which it couldn';t be further from being. The truth is that EVERY INDIVIDUAL IS UNIQUE AND HAS THEIR OWN INDIVIDUALIZED COMMUNICATION STYLE. I can say from experience that I've known some men who consistanly 'burst my happy bubble' with their bickering and complainning and grumpiness. And they were not feminine. Trust me , there is nothing more annoying to a happy woman than a man who thinks showing happiness over anything OTHER than 'extreme fight night', anything with an engine, and boozing, makes him look 'weak'. See, Some men are the the Debbie Downers (or Doug Downers) too. It's all in the individual and how happy they allow themselves to be. " to article 11 Dating Mistakes Men Make and 4 Dating Mistakes Women Make (04/21/2008)